LOL. You're quite the humanitarian, yourself.
I'm haven't passed judgment on them any more than I would expect others (yourself included) to pass judgment on me if I got caught doing something stupid. It's a risk we all take when we make a dumb choice.
As for ridiculing their suffering, I don't think I've done that. "Boo-hoo" and the like was ridiculing the tears that others are shedding on their behalf to the extent that it applies to their damaged reputations (since I need to be clear).
At any rate, thanks so much for your patience and understanding, and your willingness to see where your perception has been flawed. My point—if you could only allow yourself to get a grasp of it—is entirely valid. But, you (and others) have hunkered down in your hole so firmly that you can't afford to come out and see it.