Mine are dead also...
And I have talked with my children and warned them that I would come back and haunt them any of them get in any fights before, during, or after mine.
For one thing...I have no money to leave....so that should take care of 99% of the problem...LOL
LOL --- the arguments were never over money. As I recall, they were stupid things such as who hit the longest homerun when they were boys. The sort of silliness that only arises after a lot of alcohol has been consumed. The toasts to the departed were always my favorite part.