My heart goes out to you and your daughter.
It is amazing that mothers, who wouldn't think of not putting a seatbelt on their child, or let them ride a bike without a helmet these days, etc, could so wilfully ignore the mental health of their child.
Thanks for that. I have to bear the brunt of the responsibilty since I married for "cuteness in cutoffs" over character. My daughter is in the very capable hands of God, who loves her even more than I do. She will be fine in time.