She is speaking out about her feelings and observations, in the hope of stopping others from being "created" with only half a history.
I read no whining or wishing that she wasn't born in her article.
"I'm here to tell you that emotionally, many of us are not keeping up. We didn't ask to be born into this situation, with its limitations and confusion. It's hypocritical of parents and medical professionals to assume that biological roots won't matter to the "products" of the cryobanks' service, when the longing for a biological relationship is what brings customers to the banks in the first place.
We offspring are recognizing the right that was stripped from us at birth -- the right to know who both our parents are.
And we're ready to reclaim it"
None of us asked to be born, and very few are born into perfect situations.
Whining.
Waiting for the WaPo to run the same article from the kid who had a sperm donor for a dad but in the absentee father category.