Having been born and lived under communism, boo friggin' hoo. When Communists show a respect for human rights, property, and life in general, then I'll accord them the same.
You that's just the point. Respect for life is absolute. You have a lot of maturing left to do. This attitude you have of "I'll be nice to him as soon as he's nice to me." should instantly be recognizable to any parent. Luckily, most of our children outgrow before adulthood.
It is not enough to just survive the war, we have to be worthy of survival.