Good, I want to see those.
We all understand that there are people who can't be troubled to undertake all that special care, even for their own child. But if they won't, or can't, do it themselves, at least let them send the patient to an appropriate care facility. What I can't figure out is people who go to court to have their child (or wife) put to death.
God bless the people who do put their own plans aside in order to care for a sick child or loved one.
"At the end of our lives, we will not be judged by how many diplomas we have received, how much money we have made or how many great things we have done. We will be judged by ‘I was hungry and you gave me to eat. I was naked and you clothed me. I was homeless and you took me in.’" -- Mother Teresa.
NURSE: Iamolite.
Mr. CRUZAN: Boy, she sure responds to that voice.
NURSE: Yeah, she does. I can come in here and--
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Mrs. CRUZAN: You (Nancy) have company. You look like you need your hair brushed.
Mr. CRUZAN: Nancy, we brought a fellow by the name of Bill Colby up with us. He's the one that's going to represent us in this thing that we talked about.
( The parents of Nancy contacted the ACLU and they referred them to Bill Colby. He urrently is a Fellow at the Midwest Bioethics Center, the leading practical bioethics think tank in the country.)
Mr. COLBY: Hi, Nancy.
Mrs. CRUZAN: I don't think she's real impressed.
Mr. COLBY: Is this how she appears each time you come?
Mr. CRUZAN: Yeah, this is it.
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Mrs. CRUZAN: Well, Nancy, we got the decision from Judge Teel today. He ruled that you do have constitutional rights to determine your own treatment, so it was all favorable.
Mr. CRUZAN: I don't think that you know what we're talking about. I don't have any way of knowing that. But if you do, why we talked about this a lot before and you know why we're doing it. We've still got a ways to go. But at least we won the first round.
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Mr. CRUZAN: It's going to be difficult, kind of a tough couple of weeks for her, but--but then she'll be free. And that statement that I wrote the other day, I--Ill read as much of it as I can. I don't know if I can read all of it or not.
"During the late fall and winter of 1986, realizing that Nancy was not going to recover and that she would not wish to continue in her present condition, I made a commitment to her to allow her to die with some dignity. On May 28, 1987, we presented a letter to the Missouri Rehabilitation Center requesting that treatment be stopped. Today, 1,206 days later, we have that court order.
She was our bright, flaming star who flew through the heavens of our lives. Though brilliant, her life was terribly short lived, but she has left a flaming trail, a legacy that I do not think will be shortly forgotten.
Because of Nancy, I suspect hundreds of thousands of people can rest free, knowing that when death beckons they can meet it face to face with dignity, free from the fear of unwanted medical treatment, unwanted and useless medical treatment.
I think this is quite an accomplishment for a 25 year old kid and I'm damned proud of her. I know that wherever she is today, she is looking down, beaming with pride, damned proud of her family. Now we walk with her to the door of death so that she may at last pass through and be free. I don't even know why I tried to do that. So fly away, little sister, and have fun." http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/programs/transcripts/1014.html
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ANGER IN HOSPITAL AT A DEATH ORDER
December 16, 1990
Sharon Howard and many others are not willing to. "I will not stand by idly," Ms. Howard said. "I can take care of Nancy, but I don't want to be around her family."