[A_perfect_lady]

Now that I've finished my education and have a decent-paying job, I'm less interested in "finding a man" than I was before. I'm more interested in home decorating, salvaging my finances after years of student loans, and getting good at my job. I'm finally getting my life set up the way I want and honestly, I'm a little afraid that a man will kind of mess it up. I like men (they smell good) but I don't like cleaning up after them, or watching them spend money on things we don't need while things we do need (IMO) go unsatisfied.

[derllak]

I hear ya! You sound very smart and sensible to me!

[Patriotic1]

You have to be lucky to find a_perfect_gentleman then. There are men out there who want the same things you do. It's just tough to find 'em.

[pray4liberty]

I felt the same way as you do right now, 23 years ago. However just when I had it all together, I met an incredible guy and married him eight weeks later.

When Mr. Right comes along, he's Mr. Right. It happens when you least expect it.

[petitfour]

I I I I I I I I I I

Stay single.