[farmer18th]

How you tell the truth matters. The ends do not justify the means. Do you understand that?

The problem is there is no "gentle" way to tell someone they condone murder.

Put it to a tamborine? Add some aroma therapy? Fire up the praise band and pretend you're not listening to a politician that is an addicted liar?

Do you understand any of that?

[Sunsong]

You have not answered my questions. I would like you to answer them.

The problem is there is no "gentle" way to tell someone they condone murder.

First you need to understand where they are coming from - what they believe. And then you need to explain, kindly, why you have the truth and educate them. But you need to really have the truth. Otherwise you will lose credibiltiy for a long time.