You are wrong. Kindness reaches people. You may want to reflect on why the thought of kindness puts you to sleep!! Do you associate kindness, love, compassion, gratitude etc with weakness?
Cruelty hurts people. One does not need to be cruel to those who are criminal or immoral. They can be arrested without being beaten or spit on. They can be incarcerated without cruelty.
You continue to argue for cruelty and I will continue to argue for kindness. Screaming at the deaf is not only cruel - it is stupid. Are you really wanting to present Christianity as a cruel religion?
Why don't you read the post about what this AIDS conference really is and then come back and apologize for all the hurtful things you have said.
You believe everything that is truthful is cruel. I don't. Let me tell you some truthful statements, and you can tell me whether you think they are cruel or not:
Dere Obama supports the continued right of women to abort their own children and kill them. He deserves no position of teaching or instruction or panel participation--Sunday, Monday, midnight or 10 AM--in any Christian church. You call that cruel. I call that the truth. If my child were to walk into that church and witness people listen to this justifier of murder, I would be properly outraged. That is truthful, not cruel.
If you think it's cruel to tell the truth, then you have a problem with the truth.