Move to Iowa. You could live in Cedar Falls, which is where I live, really pretty cheaply. The quality of health care is excellent and moderate in cost. There are busses if you can't afford a car. There has been a lot of building of apartment complexes here, mostly due to the large population of undergraduate students at UNI, but what that has done is leave a lot of lower-price apartments and houses needing renters. I see "for rent" signs now, and never did before. You would be so much safer here, too, crime is very low.
(((Hugsss))) Wish I could!