Maybe that's the prayer we should be praying... For Mr. Tonk to be happy.
He may not physically heal, and it would be presumptuous to declare that someone else has emotional or spiritual healing to do.
Mr. Tonk (I love that title of respect!)is level headed and realistic. he knows how he's doing. From here on, I will be praying for happiness for him, whether it comes from returning to heaven, or feeling our love, or from numerous other ways that I am not wise enough to guess at.
For you happiness, Tonk! You have brought so much to so many other people! :-D
I love your thought...just prayers for "happy"...
I always have called him Tonk..out of respect...
I just couldn't call him Brian...even when I wrote to him.
(My mother, RIP, would've slapped the back of my head if I called him Brian:-)