You don't think that your #2 and #3 aren't confrontation?
I think we should leave all that aside:
I think we shouldn't rely on words at all. To the best of my knowledge, Europe (and the USA) is not compelled to accept muslim immigrants, and that because of that we should turn them away in EVERY case.
This is totally apart from the notion that there are nice muslims --I am completely sure of that, and I don't need to guess because I KNOW that from personal experience.
And the muslim illegals should be forcibly deported. And we should simply disregard that we've even been asked to engage in discourse at all, and do the above because we CAN do the above.