You're mixing up the e-mails and the IMs
Just posted on another thread. I was at my Wednesday Night Poker game when one of the guys who plays with us says you won't believe this story.
His son has been getting calls from all the networks and newspapers. Someone got his cellphone number. He happened to be one of the roommates with the page that has caused the whole stir.
First comment from son was that this page flaunted his gayness, everyone knew within 10 minutes of meeting him.
Second, the page was not nieve, he was out enjoying the scene and his preferences.
Third, there was not message to all pages about Foley, that was made up.
I guess all sorts of FUD is being spouted. His son has turned down all interviews and staying out of it. His son is very straight and very strong conservative.