I'm not a shrink but after being married to a psychologist for 18 years and a psychiatrist for another 8 years... besides being screwed up I am reasonably trained to spot this tripe. You clearly know exactly what maica is referring to when asked if you are MD4BUSH. Your silly line above is so clearly contrived it's laughable.
BTW you 'tell' was the use of 'him/her.' You're trying too hard to act dumb about it. The typical conversationalist would have simply said him or wouldn't have even remarked on the subject at all.