In my opinion I think the true devastation is what happens to the children, spouses and extended families of career women. It is true, wives/Mothers that have poorer large families do many times have to work right alongside their husbands, but these woman would give anything to stay at home and be with their children and tend to the house etc.
Where I think things get really crazy is for women and families who are already living in the 1% or even upper middle class economic bracket. The children are shuttled off to the nanny and day care and even thrown back at the husband (who is also working at a high level job) to care for them.
I think these women are the most selfish women I know and they are always libs, usually rabid.
I used to say and sometimes still do that the husband chose that person so they made their bed--live in it. Yet, the children did not choose that Mother, sadly and also the women many times misrepresent themselves when they are dating and when it comes time to be a wife and Mother they revert to their selfish feminist brain and run full speed ahead into the work environment. It is harder dealing with the unpredictability and complexity at home.
Thus I see these women as not just poor choices for mates and Mothers, but also think they are scaredy cat babies themselves to use a childhood phrase :-). JMO