First link I tried on your key words:
http://www.cayman.org/divesite/stingray.htm
Last paragraph:
Keep in mind that these are wild animals and will not take kindly to folks trying to ride them or pull their tails. They are capable of inflicting a rather serious injury with the stinger on their tail if you attempt to ride or harass them physically.
QED
Since he was doing neither of those, your argument is irrelevant.