I understand where you are coming from but you missed my point. Not everyone is ashamed of watching porn. Not all porn "actors" are ashamed of thier profession. Not even all pedophiles are ashamed of thier predations. In some cases on this forum you are casting your pearls before swine. Now I'm not turning around to trample you underfoot, don't misunderstand me. What I'm saying is watch the tone, your words at times are full of salt and seasoned with grace and that only hardens hearts.
I was actually looking for anyone to advance this argument, but so far no one has. I am actually a little surprised. The argument seems to be that there is no problem with people keeping the things they are ashamed of private.
That response really surprises me.
Shalom.