Do you believe God gives us a free will or controls us like puppets? If we have no free will then we aren't responsible for any of our actions, are we? It would be God's fault. If we have a free will then God is going to allow us choices, right? Did the mother take drugs that may cause fetal abnormalities? If so, did God make her take them or did she choose? Instead of God using this little one for His glory, what would you would rather He do with her?
1. Don't lecture me. It's pointless.
2. The subject of free will is an intersting one, and you won't like my answer. Sure we have free will, but only after...
_ Our genes determine our sex; much of our personality; much of our likes and dislikes; our health at birth and for much of our lives; our race; whether or not we will be attractive; tall; short; and so on. Our genes determine our intelligence; our innate talents; heck, even the fact that we are human instead of some other species._ The family and culture into which we are born shapes what we learn; much of what we believe; our world view; whether or not we are loved and nurtured in childhood; whether or not we have material comfort in childhood; whether or not any latent talents we have will be recognized and developed; the opportunities available to us as we reach adulthood, and so on.
After all of that -- the interaction of our genes and our upbringing -- if we do make it to adulthood, then we have a measure of free will. But only a measure, and one that is constrained by all of the above factors.