Lady, my kids are alive and healthy and that's because of ME. And I assure you, they won't be suffering from seperation anxiety because they've been tied to my apron strings for 20 years. I mean, if you're STILL grabbing for your 21 y/o childs hand....you either didn't raise her right or you're a smothering, obsessive control freak.
I held my Moms hand after I was married and had kids. What's your problem?