Maybe (Probably?) they are looking in the wrong places and behaving the wrong way. Married my wife when she was 35.
It is a matter of convincing the guy that you offer something that no other woman does - companionship of the heart. We went out to a movie and arrived at the theatre early - she wanted to go to a nearby bookstore until the movie started. From that minute onwards I was determined to marry her.
Yep, you've got that right. Most of them just want sex. It's tough to find one that wants to have a relationship too...