[MrEdd]

Individuals can take care of the "baggage" of life and give to children what our childhood may had so tragically lacked, needed and wanted.

Technically no childhood trauma - either sexual, violent, or both can cause actual reduced structural development in the brain. Do a search on "brain structure" and "trauma". Or get a recent book on post traumatic stress counseling. The brain can develop work arounds, but it isn't quick or easy.

[Not A Snowbird]

I didn't say anything about brain trauma. What do you mean?