Mine probably lies. When I bring my weight up he says he wants me to lose for health reasons but sees me just like I was 36 years ago when we got married:') Sometimes though, (not in your and my case )a man that nags and belittles a woman for being overweight just lowers her self esteem and makes things worse because they turn to their comfort foods.
This is for all women who think like you: You're in denial. He sees you like you were 36 years ago? No, he doesn't. He loves you like he did ... but that's not how he SEES you. If you loved yourself and him, you'd lose weight if you need to.