A good summary. I believe there's room for everyone in the church, including gays. But I don't think that means that the church should become a wing of the gay rights movement. Christianity doesn't promise any of us the right to seek happiness by following our own desires -- if that becomes the message, then the church has become a temple dedicated to self-love.
Absolutely! What there isn't room for is sin. And I have yet to interpret anything in the Bible regarding homosexuality as anything other than sin.