"Without picking up on "her" sex, I've read her other posts, and having done so, it's hard to see that one as a mistake. It's quite in line with "her" general tone."
Well, I can't say I disagree with your take. I just wanted to let her answer the charges; as she has posted a bit since I asked her, with no reply... I think the answer is becoming clearer.
That's "Christian love" for you. Not the type I was raised with, but I expect she and I belong to different denominations. ;) And I can thank God for that.
"If someone is raped, they should be punished. I don't understand why this is such an issue."
clearly indicates you did mean it. What a sick, sick world-view.