"Actually you cannot compare the urge to steal and the sexual urge...
The sexual urge has been programmed in us by 2 million years of evolution..."
LOL!
From an atheist, I'd expect "evolution".
There's nothing wrong with sex. What a gift that is!!!
However like anything else there is a RIGHT time and a WRONG time for it. Some of us have values/beliefs which guide us on the right and wrong things to do in life. This is simply one of those times.
These "urges" you speak of - sex, stealing whatever are all CHOICES. "Urges" shouldn't have the last say in what you do! That's where you and I part ways - "urges" don't control me. I have values/beliefs that over ride WRONG "urges".
Did I say I was an atheist? I just said I am not Christian...