They aren't different.
Cindy and the widows DO hide behind their labels of being 9/11 widows or having their son die in Iraq.
Ann is right on that point.
The liberals go around and if you say that Cindy is wrong or that she doesn't know what she's talking about that you are a hateful person because YOU can't possibly know what Cindy is going through.
That being said... as you said Ann's were "sharp and acid".
All these words do is drag us down to the level of liberals. Is that what you want? Saying that these women are delighting in their status as widows... is that something God would approve of?
There's a place in this debate for Ann Coulter. She is doing a great job carrying out her role. We're very fortunate that we have a few like Coulter who are willing to go bare-knuckles with some truly evil people who have been sucker-punching America for decades without being called on it.