"I have."
You haven't. Your situation was quite different from that of the infantrymen who were preparing to invade the Japanese homeland in 1945, or who might have had to invade other islands if bombing of Japan had not helped destroy their will to continue.
That said, the rest of your post is so thoroughly riven with sophistry and rewritten history that I despair of a productive discussion.
Oh, I'm sooooo sorry. I served but not at the same time or under the same circumstances so I couldn't POSSIBLY know what war is all about? I'm sure YOU were not ready to go ashore and invade Japan either, but somehow you have a better perspective than I do? Now who's engaging in sophistry?
And the history is NOT rewritten, I suggest you study more of it before you comment on it.