When we were raising our kids, there was a lot of hostility towards my wife because her "job" was being a full time mom.
I cannot understand people who leave their babies with sitters or nannies 11 hours a day, unless they're single and don't have a choice. This is the baby's life, and leaving them with others so you can get back to your desk and not lose your career position is not a good reason.
I have one word: Ha. Imagine being a father who stayed home for 13 years.