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Thats very feminist of you.

Sorry but he is still the father. It may be a bad father but still the father despite your derision.

These women do not realize that men don't want to raise some other man's mistakes. Fatherhood is not a fungible comodity.

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You can slap a feminist label on it all you want. That's the problem... too many women are 'settling' for 'anything' from their spouses because, hey, its something! And something is better than nothing.

Oh, and by your reasoning, you just condemned every man who has ever remarried a woman with children. There are plenty of good examples, even on this thread, of men who've stepped up to the plate and been a father to children who are not theirs biologically. Yes, there are even married couples who have to use donor sperm- yet the husband still raises the child as his own.

I bet you'd call a women who rejected a man's children (by your example) a b!tch.

Yep, if I'm a feminist, then you're a Neanderthal.