I'm so glad you said that....about the hate.
I've lived in Arizona in the past, for five years. I heard our compadres call gringas sluts, and gringos eunuchs.
Yet Bubba thinks that we can just build a bridge over such VAST, and I do mean VAST, cultural differences.
Stop and think about it: If States allow a "Dissolution of Marriage" based on "Irreconcilable Differences," how in the h-e-double toothpicks, does anyone one with the sense God gave little green apples, think we can surmount those vast cultural differences?