I suggest that you donate your money to local, conservative, pro-life candidates. If you're looking for one, I can make a suggestion.
Your husband isn't the only one who has grown disappointed in the President. I know MANY conservative Republicans who have had their moment where they just lose faith. It is hard. It is even sad when it happens. That moment may hit you too if you find yourself betrayed one too many times.
But let me tell you, I am a vocal supporter of the President if it is a Democrat attacking him with their stupid barking moonbat crap. When it comes to the War on Terror, I even FReep in support of the President and the troops. But criticism is warranted for a number of things the President has done or has not done. And when I am among fellow conservatives, I do not hesitate to discuss the problems I have with the President.