I'm with you. A few weeks ago I read a book by Bruce Bawer called "While Europe Slept: How Radicial Islam is Destroying the West from Within." One of the points Bawer made about the Swedes, it that they rarely identify Muslims as the source of the problem....when in fact they are.
I'm with you, it's like the well named Stockholm Syndrome
http://www.csmonitor.com/2005/1206/p07s02-woeu.html
"France has a tradition of revolt and demonstration against the state," says Jonathan Friedman, professor of social anthropology at the nearby University of Lund. "But in Sweden it's almost as if the state has sided with the immigrants against the Swedish working class."
"Sweden thinks of itself as immune from terrorism because of its foreign policies," adds Magnus Ranstorp, an analyst at the Swedish National Defence College.