I had the ame reservations about the man before they were married. It does seem to be going well, though. If you see the two wives in the same room, they look almost identical. I don't know what broke up their marriage, but I do know there are lots of divorces, and I wouldn't want you to write me off because I left a bad man. In the end, it is my daughter's life, and she is firm about that.
Not to belabor the point, but this is not what I meant. I would not discount as a future spouse someone who had been married and divorced. Know at least a couple of second marriages that are by all accounts very happy.
I DO THINK a woman should think more than twice about marrying a man who has left his wife to be with her. Then again, a woman who would date, pine for, sleep with, hook up with, (insert applicable term here) a married man, might think differently.