Why is it you want us to judge other people? God can and will do what God chooses to do as He has said in the Bible. He is not held to the instructions He gives us - He made those instructions. So, I am not going to attempt to limit God.
God can save the man in the desert if He wishes, He can change His mind any time He wants.
But, that does not change what He told us to do to get salvation. I feel that we just need to leave the extreme cases in God's hand for His dispensation and go about the business of trying to follow what He tells us to do.
So according to you, your god doesn't really mean what he says?