By the time I was 19, I had travelled alone in three continents. Right this minute, we have 19 year olds laying their lives on the line, and subject to the full rigors of military justice, in Iraq. Those are men, not boys. You want to cut this guy slack because, instead, he went to a pricey private college when he was 19?
I think x's post, above, explains how I feel, too.
And, I haven't seen any "2nd" apology from him. If you can post a link to it, please do.