"So if your 14 year old son impregnated his teacher you would be okay with it?"
No, but I would be a lot more okay with it than if a teacher impregnated my 14 year old daughter. You don't see a difference?
This boy is not a 'victim'. He was not 'victimized'.
That's the difference. For a girl, she would regret for the rest of her life having had a fling with a teacher.
Not so for the boy in this case.