I'm a guy. He won't feel ashamed, believe me.
He might not tell his bride, in fear of her being upset. He *will* remember it at his wedding day, and for the rest of his life -- fondly.
Guys are different than gals. One of the biggest differences is how we feel about sex. I just don't believe you can call this boy a 'victim', I'm sorry.
When you become a Christian, you will feel ashamed.
LOL....don't think the newspaper articles mailed to her about it all will upset her?
Didja ever think you might be doing a little projecting here ... assuming that your ethics and standards are common to everyone.
I, for one, don't think that living in a world where
He might not tell his bride, in fear of her being upset.
is a good basis for starting a lifelong commitment. Or that on my wedding day I was fondly remembering any of my previous sexual encounters
He *will* remember it at his wedding day, and for the rest of his life -- fondly.
Another sign post in your world:
I just don't believe you can call this boy a 'victim', I'm sorry.
In your world there is no way this kid can be a victim because:
1. She was attractive
2. He was a male
and we all know (you're projecting again) that guys are different than gals. One of the biggest differences is how we feel about sex.
What I'm reading between the lines here is that, in your world, the "guys" can't keep their zippers up and the "gals" that don't require them to will be "fondly remembered".
Sounds to me like a pretty shallow world, I'll think stick with mine.