[HitmanLV]

I wouldn't characterize it at all as 'using people.' I didn't say lie & cheat. I didn't suggest saying anything in order to get any particular babe in bed that night, and then never see them again. Nobody is being forced to date, or remain, with anybody else.

I also never suggested that anybody dispose of anybody because they are too demanding. I don't know where you got this stuff - you impute all sorts of bad things to my comments that weren't there, exaggerate them, and then become exceedingly judgmental about them.

That's not clarity at all, sorry.

[Scotswife]

I think it was your statement that you get to date alot of cute girls with no strings attached.

Certainly - if someone wants to do this, they are free to do this.
I simply found it odd advice to give to a guy who obviously wants to find a wife.

That you think dating alot of girls with no strings is a good thing is what I picked up on.
Maybe it isn't a good thing - especially for someone who is looking forward to experiencing a healthy marriage.

You are describing the kind of guy I advise my daughter to stay far far away from.