[goodnesswins]

What do you do when it's your Daughter-in-Law, and the house is a pig sty....??? With cat poop in the clean clothes basket, a full cat box on the front porch to greet you when you arrive, or on the back porch baking in the sun......? And, the one bathroom (for 6 people) didn't get cleaned until around oh, 4 months or so....

Note: The DIL's Mother is the same way....

[sauropod]

With cat poop in the clean clothes basket, a full cat box on the front porch to greet you when you arrive, or on the back porch baking in the sun

Kill the cat. 'Pod.

[Gone GF]

"What do you do when it's your Daughter-in-Law, and the house is a pig sty....??? With cat poop in the clean clothes basket, a full cat box on the front porch to greet you when you arrive, or on the back porch baking in the sun......? And, the one bathroom (for 6 people) didn't get cleaned until around oh, 4 months or so...."

Now that's a tough one. My sister is sort of the DIL you describe, although not THAT bad. If your son doesn't mind the way the house is or doesn't do anything about it, I'm not sure what you can do.