Men have always been attracted to hot women.
Geez....this rabbi wants to make a "new man" devoid of his innate nature.
Messianic.
Is this a chick thread?
My advice to Jewish chicks...and I've dated a few including living with one for 3 years including buying a house together:
Relax and let the man be a man. Don't be bossy. My attraction to them in my Manhattan days was that I was like the opposite of a stereotypical Jewish "doctor type"...Southern Alpha male...very non-Alda or Woddy Allen....devoid of angst and no mother issues.
They loved it except when their parents gave them grief over my goyishness but in the end they remained very Jewish and I remained very Alpha.....and what had attracted them ended up repelling them.
Some things are nature I'm convinced....culturally entrenched. Not that it can't be done but I think Jewish men pair better with Goy chicks than vice versa.
oh well maybe I didn't meet the right one but I woulda never converted...and that always came up.
Jews really need to start marrying each other and having lotsa babies or they are going to fade away largely....victims of their own doing
Jewish chicks are so bossy no good Jewish men want to marry them.
Rabbi Boteach is almost telling men not to be men. The first thing that attracts a man to a woman is her physical beauty. This is the incentive to check her out more closely, talk with her, and then determine if she is spiritually beautiful.
Women think they don't have to be women any more. They think they can be Type B women, pushing maximum density, whiny/kvetchy, chop off their hair, and feel entitled to what they feel they deserve without the work required.
American women have adopted many of the negative spiritual qualities Jewish women are known for that men just aren't going to put up with any more - at least the non-metrosexual ones.
I haven't gotten married yet because I can't stand the Jewish women I know. I am now talking to a Christian girl who is both physcially becautifully and spiritually beautiful as well. Jewish men with hot goy chicks (whom convert to Judaism) does work well because the goy chicks have a much, much better and humble attitude toward men than Jewish chicks who marry goy men (who are wimps).