NEVER believed that I would witness a time when even marriage-minded, Orthodox men would become womanizers, giving themselves the latitude to date as many women as possible so that they can find "the best." In yeshiva I was taught one did not date a woman the way one shopped for a car. Rather, you focused on one woman completely and tried to develop a soulful connection with her without worrying about what else might be out there.
Sure, I guess we are supposed to just accept the first woman we run into, ....and her big ass? I don't think so!
Men are not looking for a dream-woman, just someone who doesn't come with their own zip-code, who can cook, knows when to shut up, and a few other things. Women no longer think that most of that is necessary anymore, so they can just marry Oprah.
It's not that it's not necessary, maybe it's just that your sales pitch needs work.
Do I sense a dollop of hostility there? Are you saying fat chicks are demanding as well as beauty-challenged?
A recipe for the perfect woman.
"knows when to shut up" ???
You sound like an idiot.