"On the other hand, most men don't really give it much thought beyond, "look at them headlights!" "
That's why it's important for women to stay home and teach their boys not to just look at the "headlights." But I can never pass up a good set of headlights. I very much appreciate them and thank God and say a blessing for seeing a beautiful women every time. There is a specific blessing in the Jewish Siddur (prayer book) which says upon seeing a good looking woman:
"Blessed are you, Lord our G-d, King of the Universe, who has such in His universe."
Men, take time to appreciate the physical beauty when you see it. Take time to appreciate them for their spiritual beauty as well.
Guys who just look at the headlights tend to be a specific type of guy...