[A knight without armor]

"But I really think most men want a woman with heart and goodness - things haven't gotten as bad as this article portrays, imho."

I'd like to think you are correct. How do women and men who are not perfect do it? Is there just a whole race of only losers who marry ladies and men who are just average, disabled, homely, not thin, etc? I'm serious. Truly, the very best people I personally know are not perfect be they men or women. They are full of love and compassion and hard work. No one would post their pictures here except as a joke. Any more then they would mine.

[CaliGirlGodHelpMe]

I agree with your logic. Just look around you - even at engagement announcements in the paper - and you will see that the vast majority of happily married people are far from gorgeous. I really don't know where this author is coming from - but it's a place I definitely don't want to go!

And btw, I'll bet you're adorable [:D