I can only imagine what your house looks like...If you want to keep your house like a dump...go live in a place that has no rules. SHE LIVED IN A COMMUNITY WITH RULES. And they gave her chances and offers of help. SHE DID NOTHING. It sounds like there may be some mental illness involved here. (Her, not you, although. granted, I don't know you well enough yet) Sounds like this will be a blessing in disguise for her.
The lady went to some kind of training to learn how to do her own home repairs and apparently reroofed the home;I do not call that doing nothing.
It seems some would make lack of wealth a crime.
I believe strongly in the "man's home is his castle" principle and am saddened by how the walls have been battered down by the busybodies of the nation.