Officers assigned to the USNA are going to take the path of least resistance. They are not going to flush their careers for the sake of some dumbass Youngster who admitted to a Class A. He screwed up, and he got the boot. They've tossed a heck of a lot better guys than him over the years, and Mother B will somehow get over his loss.
That's what they're really trying to tell these guys, IMO: keep it in your pants and stay the heck away from female Mids. Leave them alone, and have as little to do with them outside of professional requirements as possible.
To do otherwise is asking for trouble. And if a Mid asks for trouble, you can be sure the OOD will make sure he gets it. Some things never change.
I was waiting to see what response would come from the Grads. I have just one question. Are these females the kind of Leaders you want to send to the fleet? Without some reaction from you folks nothing will change, and leadership quality will continue on its current path.