No, I am pro-Taiwanese PEOPLE, as they will be the one dying if war breaks out and not you and your family!! It's easy to play the high moral grounds -- why don't you go to Iraq and fight the insurgents, if you believe in what you believe in? Eh? Much easier to play quarterbacking when you're safe in the states.
As far as the communists killing them over independence, that won't happen. Taiwan has consistently declared independence over and over and the communists have not attacked.
My opinion has always been if one is for unification of Taiwan and China then one's focus needs to be on getting rid of the communists not villifying and demonizing people exercising their freedom and democratic rights in Taiwan.
That's the litmus test for supporting both Taiwan and China (unified or separate) as either one or two free nations however that plays out.
Right now Taiwan is free, China is not so the onus is on China to change if there is any hope for a merger.
But you don't seem to be for that.