Your attitude that a woman has to "make a man want to stay" is nauseating.
MY husband sticks around even when things are horrible. I don't have to treat him like a baby and gratify his every whim. We do things for each other.
Same deal with me and my wife. Then again, I've seen to many of my friends have their wives serve them with divorce papers because the wives weren't sufficiently "fulfilled", plus one who was left when his business failed and he was no longer able to keep her in the style she had become accustomed to