[veronica]

I wouldn't pay too much attention to the "preachers" here. Particularly the men. ;) Talk is cheap. Real life seldom follows an ideal script. It's a much more defensible position to say "I made a difference" than "if do this and this you are a lousy mother blah blah blah."

[RMDupree]

And I'd like to roll out the statistic that shows that it is mostly women who are struggling with single parenthood.

Very few men would take the challenge. They move on.