Most singe mum's these day are single because that is their choice. Many are not divorced they just did not bother getting married in the first place. They are their own worst enemies. Also among divorced women, with children, that I have know it has been hard to tell just why they were divorced in the first place. A general discontent seemed to be the reason. Not in one case I know did the parents care two hoots what their selfish divorce did for the children. Divorce and promiscuity should be greatly discouraged to prevent the children suffering.
Anyone here is appalled at people sending their kids to day care should stop preaching and get busy. Get off their duffs, sign up to be a Big Brother or Big Sister, and make difference in a child's life. There are plenty of ways people can do that. Sometimes people find themselves in difficult situations, and instead of judging them, we should find ways to be a positive influence.
Really? Wow. Never would have thought of that idea. < /sarc >