Many on this thread, even those who disagree with us, are reasonable and good people, I'm sure. Others are simply busybodies who have something to prove about their own choices in life, and do so at the expense of others, because they feel threatened. They are not happy people. Pray for them, and just be glad you are not one of them.
I'm very grateful that I'm a happy person in spite of what I've dealt with in life.
It just disturbs me to see their narrow views and lack of compassion for other FReepers who got dealt a bad hand.